The Science of Gratitude

by Rachel Stanton, published in The Pulse of the Pridethe Lyme School newsletter, on November 17, 2023


THE SCIENCE OF GRATITUDE

November is the month of GRATITUDE! During Stanton Time this week and next, we’ll continue to discuss what gratitude is, what science says about how it impacts our body, our brain, and our relationships, and how we can put it into action.

Here’s a little bit of what I share with students during Stanton Time:
Research suggests that having a regular gratitude practice can have amazing benefits:

  • Gratitude opens the door to more relationships – you show appreciation for others – you will have positive connections with people and maybe more and deeper friendships.
  • Gratitude improves physical health – Grateful people experience fewer aches and pains and report feeling healthier than other people.
  • Gratitude improves psychological health – Gratitude reduces lots of toxic emotions, from jealousy to frustration, and regret.
  • Grateful people sleep better – writing in a gratitude journal before bed increases the length and quality of sleep.
  • Gratitude improves how you feel about yourself (self-esteem) – it reduces social comparisons, grateful and proud of who YOU are and what YOU can do.
  • Gratitude increases mental strength – not only reduces stress, but it may also play a major role in overcoming obstacles (Psychology Today, 2015).

Students totally bought into this idea. We first filled our “Gratitude Jar” – Who are the people and pets what are the things, ideas, aromas, and foods, where are the places that bring us joy? Students filled their “jars” with these people, pets, places, things, and ideas that will be on display around the building.

After we determined how to fill our jar, we talked about turning Gratitude into a VERB – it is the most effective and impactful when we SHOW and SHARE it! I invited students to take a moment today or this week to let someone (both in and outside of school) know they appreciate them and why.

Our Kindergartners are working on their gratitude books to bring home for the Thanksgiving holiday. I hope they share them with you!

Here are some ways to practice gratitude with your family! (Don’t just save it for when there is Turkey on the table!)

I’d like to take this moment to send loads of gratitude to my colleagues who work hard every day to do what’s best for kids and who are super fun to work with. Big thanks to our Lyme School families for their partnership and trusting us to be a part of their village!

LYME STAFF ROCKS, LYME STUDENTS ROCK, LYME SCHOOL ROCKS!

Counselor Stanton, the CommunityCare of Lyme team agrees! And we are very grateful for YOU. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and enthusiasm with the students, and for allowing us to share it as today’s Wellness Wednesday post.

Rachel Stanton
Rachel StantonLyme School Student Life Coordinator/School Counselor

Every Wednesday, CommunityCare of Lyme lifts up a wellness topic, embracing the widest possible definition of individual and community well-being. We include local and national resources, individual and group programs and practices, and personal stories, videos, or songs that have something to teach us all. We are always seeking guest contributors! 

If you have a wellness-themed topic you would like to share or learn more about, please reach out to shelby@cclyme.org

Shelby Wood
Manager of Volunteer Participation
CommunityCare of Lyme
Shelby@cclyme.org
802-468-7776 (cell)
603-795-0603 (CCL office and help line)